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MrAdams
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 posted on 1.23.2008 at 02:38 PM |
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What are your fears...
good-afternoon everyone,
got this via another board...
When it comes to relationships and dealing with members of the opposite sex?
have a nice day...
sincerely,
mradams 
Helping Patrol The CL Lounge...
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Wamuiru
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![[*]](./images/reflections/default_icon.gif) posted on 1.23.2008 at 07:58 PM |
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being hurt again. i'm waiting on God this time.
It's Not Too Late, To Right The Wrongs That We Make. The Future's Tomorrow. The Limit's The Sky.
Semper Fi Sister
Do Not Let Man Put A Period In Your Life Where God Has Placed A Comma. - Bishop T.D. Jakes
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Jeneen
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| posted on 1.23.2008 at 08:09 PM |
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| Quote: | Originally posted by Wamuiru
being hurt again. |
I don't think I have this ability anymore. I think it is because I view love and relationships differently now that I am older. All that boo-hoo-hoo
stuff and getting all wrapped up in other individual just doesn't make any sense to me. I cannot fathom myself crying because a relationship has
ended or someone doesn't want me anymore. As I see it, people are meant to come into our lives for a certain amount of time and do what they do and
leave. Each relationship is an experience we need to teach us something. Now that time may be a year or a few years but whatever the case, the notion
of being "hurt" simply because another person decides to leave me is just quite foreign to me at this stage in my life. And so to answer the
question- nothing. Nothing scares me about relationships or dealing with the opposite sex.
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BrownBomber
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| posted on 1.23.2008 at 10:00 PM |
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Having to choose between a woman and my son.....She would lose hands down.
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Diamond
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| posted on 1.23.2008 at 10:09 PM |
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I'm not sure there is anything I could go through in a relationship with a man,that I have not already experienced
Only thing I haven't experienced to the best of my knowledge, would be dating a don't give a hoot,.in ya face "CHEATER/WOMANIZER"....or dating a
serious Drug Addict...not fearful of this even,though...
I'd have to say, I currently can't think of anything I would fear...because i have been thru Hayle and Back a few times..and I;m still here...still
standing..and ..now, with experience of that level of pain...
I can't think of anything right now..at all...again once you've been thru hayle as many times as I have...everything else is a piece of cake...
Winners Never Quit...Quitters Never Win...
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thegdlife
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| posted on 1.23.2008 at 11:38 PM |
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Being older now there's nothing that I fear in the opposite sex...It is what it is.....
I also would have to agree with Jeneen: "As I see it, people are meant to come into our lives for a certain amount of time and do what they do and
leave. Each relationship is an experience we need to teach us something. "
who am I, that I do not yet know that I am.
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Blakfiya
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| posted on 1.24.2008 at 12:54 AM |
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I fear having to go through someone learning me again.
I fear losing someone that just compliments me so well.
I fear mistreating my s/o based on previous relationship expectations.
Deep words arent words that stump and/or confuse the listener. Deep words enlighten.
“Busy are the wicked bowing down to false prophets while just behavior transcends.”
-Capricious Minds, Markus Blye Part II
Your background …it aint squeaky clean (schyt!)
-Jill Scott
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MissyAlaukwu
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| posted on 1.24.2008 at 08:07 AM |
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| Quote: | Originally posted by Jeneen
| Quote: | Originally posted by Wamuiru
being hurt again. |
I don't think I have this ability anymore. I think it is because I view love and relationships differently now that I am older. All that boo-hoo-hoo
stuff and getting all wrapped up in other individual just doesn't make any sense to me. I cannot fathom myself crying because a relationship has
ended or someone doesn't want me anymore. As I see it, people are meant to come into our lives for a certain amount of time and do what they do and
leave. Each relationship is an experience we need to teach us something. Now that time may be a year or a few years but whatever the case, the notion
of being "hurt" simply because another person decides to leave me is just quite foreign to me at this stage in my life. And so to answer the
question- nothing. Nothing scares me about relationships or dealing with the opposite sex. |
Maybe this feel comes with age.
The biggest fear for me is also getting hurt again; cause at this point in my life I don't think I can survive the kind of pain I did after the last
break-up.
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dstdiva
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| posted on 1.24.2008 at 10:39 AM |
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My biggest fear is rejection.
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caramelkisses
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| posted on 1.24.2008 at 10:55 AM |
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I agree with Jeneen....
Everything I'm not made me everything I am ~Kanye
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Coach707
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| posted on 1.24.2008 at 12:12 PM |
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| Quote: | Originally posted by Jeneen
| Quote: | Originally posted by Wamuiru
being hurt again. |
I don't think I have this ability anymore. I think it is because I view love and relationships differently now that I am older. All that boo-hoo-hoo
stuff and getting all wrapped up in other individual just doesn't make any sense to me. I cannot fathom myself crying because a relationship has
ended or someone doesn't want me anymore. As I see it, people are meant to come into our lives for a certain amount of time and do what they do and
leave. Each relationship is an experience we need to teach us something. Now that time may be a year or a few years but whatever the case, the notion
of being "hurt" simply because another person decides to leave me is just quite foreign to me at this stage in my life. And so to answer the
question- nothing. Nothing scares me about relationships or dealing with the opposite sex. |
I salute you sista!  You're my kinda girl!
People should remember..... "The best relationship is one inwhich your LOVE for one another exceeds your NEED for each other."
"Great spirits have often encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds"
W.I.N
(What's important NOW!)
!AHTORB YM NOISSIM YM IS NEM LLA TCEPSER DNA EVOL WOHS OT
Of course we want to find solutions to our problems, but when what we want conflicts with what we expect, we always get what we expect, not what we
want.
Im sorry, but I am all for self...... Self reverence, self knowledge, and self control.
"Some of the biggest failures in the world are those who have never failed."
"Thinking is the hardest work there is, which is why so few people do it."
Coach
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waterboxer
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| posted on 1.24.2008 at 12:18 PM |
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| Quote: | Originally posted by Jeneen
| Quote: | Originally posted by Wamuiru
being hurt again. |
I don't think I have this ability anymore. I think it is because I view love and relationships differently now that I am older. All that boo-hoo-hoo
stuff and getting all wrapped up in other individual just doesn't make any sense to me. I cannot fathom myself crying because a relationship has
ended or someone doesn't want me anymore. As I see it, people are meant to come into our lives for a certain amount of time and do what they do and
leave. Each relationship is an experience we need to teach us something. Now that time may be a year or a few years but whatever the case, the notion
of being "hurt" simply because another person decides to leave me is just quite foreign to me at this stage in my life. And so to answer the
question- nothing. Nothing scares me about relationships or dealing with the opposite sex. |
That's what I am talking about. Especially on some Boy Friend, Girl Friend sh!T.
I don't have any fears but being married and my wife being my best friend, adviser and too many other things to list it would be difficult filling
her shoes. I would measure every female I came in contact with to her.
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SheSoFly
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| posted on 1.24.2008 at 02:46 PM |
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| Quote: | Originally posted by dstdiva
My biggest fear is rejection. |
Me too. Thats a sucky feeling (for lack of better words)
So What?
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Location: United Kingdom
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| posted on 1.24.2008 at 04:52 PM |
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| Quote: | Originally posted by thegdlife
Being older now there's nothing that I fear in the opposite sex...It is what it is.....
I also would have to agree with Jeneen: "As I see it, people are meant to come into our lives for a certain amount of time and do what they do and
leave. Each relationship is an experience we need to teach us something. " |
 strongly...the only thing that could ever break me...is loosing my
daughter...and that's my only and biggest fear....so the opposite sex doesn't stand a chance in hell.
"£0vë Më«0r»Håtë Më±It's §ti££ Ån=Öߧe§§¦oN"
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BronzeBlossom
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| posted on 1.27.2008 at 01:15 AM |
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I have only two:
1. Wasting time
I have had occasion to observe how brief life can be, and how much time people who love each other spend arguing over petty things. I pray that my
future mate and I do not often engage in such folly.
2. Missing the lesson
No matter what happens, I know that God will intend for me to learn something from my time with my mate (or potential mate, as the case may be). I
hope that I am neither too blissful nor too bitter to miss the opportunities to learn.
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