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ask.gif posted on 5.16.2008 at 12:43 PM
5 Things That Turn U Off With The Opposite Sex...


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5 - What Kind Of Traits Turn U Off Bout The Opposite Sex?



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[*] posted on 5.16.2008 at 01:09 PM


1. Miss Designer Label- (if you NEED name brand clothes/shoes/etc. to feel like you're cool, you need to seek self knowledge)

2. Miss I dont cook- (theres something about a woman who was patient enough to at least TRY to learn how to cook.)

3. Miss I-N-D-E-P-E-N-D-E-N-T- (you know... she got her own house, got her own car.... I think that there's a fine line between a hard working and ambitious woman, and an ignorant self rightous person who feels the need to proclaim unadulterated independence as if this type of thinking coincides with being in a relationship/marriage situation)

4. Miss I dont talk/I dont even want to attempt to have a personality- (you know... the girl who hides behind being shy/reserved, or the girl who cant hold a meaningful conversation, doesnt know how to interact with people as if she's been locked in a cave for half her life!)

5. Miss Im too good for _____ -(fill in the blank!)




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[*] posted on 5.16.2008 at 01:11 PM


1. Arrogance - thinking their God's gift to women; also includes the bling bling and cars (does not impress me in any way)

2. Emotionally unavailable.

3. Mood swings (men tend to brood allot)

4. Don't know what they want.

5. Listen to the boys before they'll listen to a woman.




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[*] posted on 5.16.2008 at 01:17 PM


1) Aggression....I like a man to be cool, calm and collected. There's no need to rush getting my number or attention.
2) NOT standing up for me because I'm related to the man that's disrespecting me.... Disrespect is disrespect regardless whom it's coming from.
3) Street Wear....come on! If a woman should dress a certain way, men should too!
4) Telling his friends every damn this we do...
5) When you men think that a woman is taken without even asking this...




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[*] posted on 5.16.2008 at 01:23 PM


Spiritually Bankrupt

Morally Bankrupt

Doesn't cook

Doesn't know her place within the male/female structure

Has no clue how to be feminine
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[*] posted on 5.16.2008 at 01:38 PM


Quote:
Originally posted by Soul Cry
1. Arrogance - thinking their God's gift to women; also includes the bling bling and cars (does not impress me in any way)

2. Emotionally unavailable.

3. Mood swings (men tend to brood allot)

4. Don't know what they want.

5. Listen to the boys before they'll listen to a woman.


Another addition

6. Feminine men




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[*] posted on 5.16.2008 at 01:45 PM


1. Arrogance

2. Disrespectful

3. Laziness

4. Lack of creativity

5. Flakiness
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[*] posted on 5.16.2008 at 02:18 PM


~Poor Hygiene

~Financially irresponsible

~No goals, ambition, drive or motivation

~Bad temper

~Jealous/possessive

Honorable Mentions:

~Liars

~Serial cheater

~Mysoginists

~Poor relationship with mom

~Deadbeat dad

~Ciggarette smoker

~Commitment phobia

~Indecisive

~Weak

~Sexually naieve/incompatible

~Unable to hold decent, intelligent conversation

~Closeminded



*sigh* I could go on forever....but I'll stop now.

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[*] posted on 5.16.2008 at 02:25 PM


1) Passive Aggressive
2) Envious
3) Stingy
4) Serial Cheater
5) Liar

Oh yeah, was never interested in men that wore more perfume than I did, had longer hair than me, and wore more jewelry than I did.
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[*] posted on 5.16.2008 at 02:28 PM


Quote:
Originally posted by SheSoFly
~Poor Hygiene

~Financially irresponsible

~No goals, ambition, drive or motivation

~Bad temper

~Jealous/possessive

Honorable Mentions:

~Liars

~Serial cheater

~Mysoginists

~Poor relationship with mom

~Deadbeat dad

~Ciggarette smoker

~Commitment phobia

~Indecisive

~Weak

~Sexually naieve/incompatible

~Unable to hold decent, intelligent conversation

~Closeminded



*sigh* I could go on forever....but I'll stop now.

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Can I add those to my list too? lol :tu:




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[*] posted on 5.16.2008 at 02:29 PM


Possessive
Liars
Arrogant
Non-emotional
Indecisive


Everyone pretty much summed it up :yes:




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[*] posted on 5.16.2008 at 02:45 PM


1. Unemotional. Sorry cant deal.
2. Lazy.
3. Stingy or cheap.
4. Unwilling to commit. Sorry can't deal.
5. OBNOXIOUS.
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[*] posted on 5.16.2008 at 09:46 PM


1. Submissive

2. Arrogant

3. Complacent

4. Unreliable

5. Mean Spirit.. has no compassion




Be respectful and so will I. Cross the line and so will I.
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[*] posted on 5.17.2008 at 01:06 AM


1. Pretenders, Phony @ss, All Talk and no action

2. The ones who spend more time than you in the washroom getting ready (are you a girl or what :headscratch: )

3. LEAVE THE TOLIET SEAT DOWN!!!!!

4. Jealous, Stalker types

5. El' Cheapo




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Bring it the f*ck on or shut the f*ck up ;-)

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[*] posted on 5.17.2008 at 12:21 PM


the men i interact with are not lazy, they are so considerate..but the turn off for me would be if he was not clean, he must smell nice..



my self worth is not tied up in your acceptence of me !
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