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MrAdams
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![[*]](./images/reflections/default_icon.gif) posted on 7.27.2008 at 02:03 PM |
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So He Doesn't Open The Car Door For You...
good-afternoon everyone,
does that mean you will stand outside, next to the car door while he's getting in on the other side or
would you open your own car door and get in without raising hell over it?
Fellas, what would you do if a woman did that? Almost as though she's wanting you to catch the hint that you "forgot" to
open her door.
sincerely,
mradams 
Helping Patrol The CL Lounge...
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caramel2u
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| posted on 7.27.2008 at 02:43 PM |
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once you've experienced a southern gentleman you will be spoiled...
so, he should not start anything he can't finish.plus this is something thats just ingrained in some men.
my self worth is not tied up in your acceptence of me !
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Wamuiru
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| posted on 7.27.2008 at 06:12 PM |
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^^ yeah.
It's Not Too Late, To Right The Wrongs That We Make. The Future's Tomorrow. The Limit's The Sky.
Semper Fi Sister
Do Not Let Man Put A Period In Your Life Where God Has Placed A Comma. - Bishop T.D. Jakes
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narcissism
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| posted on 7.27.2008 at 07:10 PM |
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| Quote: | Originally posted by caramel2u
once you've experienced a southern gentleman you will be spoiled...
so, he should not start anything he can't finish.plus this is something thats just ingrained in some men. |
Boy do I want to meet a southern gentleman.
What makes her authority? Well...she assumed the position.
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Diamond
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| posted on 7.27.2008 at 07:31 PM |
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Southern Brotha's do overall have that Southern Hospitality On Lock...
I like when stranger Brotha's will open the door for ya, greet you..some with a flirt greeting but cute..lol...
I;ve had some rough necks to suited up Brotha's just bring that chivalry...and i love when they just do it with no Pomp and Circumstance...just kinda
automatically just do the day'em thang...
Those very Simple and Little things that Men "just do" can make a girl smile way down below..aaawwww....
I love it....and yeah..I have TRIED to reciprocate...but Men here tend to say..."I got ya lil momma...or lil lady...or I got that Lil lady...stuff
like that....so I let 'em...aaawwww
I love THIS about Southern Brotha's...
Winners Never Quit...Quitters Never Win...
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narcissism
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| posted on 7.27.2008 at 07:34 PM |
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| Quote: | Originally posted by Diamond
Those very Simple and Little things that Men "just do" can make a girl smile way down below..aaawwww....
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Amen.
What makes her authority? Well...she assumed the position.
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thestyleguru
Junior Member
Posts: 191
Registered: 7.20.2008
Location: TX
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Mood: smooth jazzness
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| posted on 7.27.2008 at 09:18 PM |
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| Quote: | Originally posted by caramel2u
once you've experienced a southern gentleman you will be spoiled...
so, he should not start anything he can't finish.plus this is something thats just ingrained in some men. |
I agree, some men have been taught how to be a gentleman; others learn these type of qualities along the way. However, with me, I will open my own
door and not make the man feel bad if he forgot. It's crazy because sometimes I never want for a man to feel like he has to open my door, but I
really appreciate it when he does. Much love for gentleman.....
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Diamond
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| posted on 7.27.2008 at 10:57 PM |
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LOL...I was tailgating off Caramel ...I should have put some pointy arrows up...like this..^^^ when she mentioned Southern Hospitality with many
Southern Brotha's...My mind went there...Because the only man who regularly opens my door is my spouse...I don't really have any reason to be in a
car with other men having to do this for me...
Otherwise, yeah, for me, the man who opened my door when dating still opens my door to now...
Exes opened my door......but they were in college trying to "score" what did they really know..lol..
But yeah most that I can honestly think of, opened doors...small thing....
and I'd have no problem opening up my own door...no biggie..but...nice when a guy does it...
Heck if guys out there nowadays feel they need or prefer a woman to open their car doors for them...then well..maybe they'll mention it...
If that's what's the New Mating Game out there...then..okay..like whoa...
Winners Never Quit...Quitters Never Win...
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mz_intrigue
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| posted on 7.28.2008 at 05:45 PM |
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I don't count it against them, but I have experienced that good ole' southern hospitality.......my current is from Shreveport, Louisiana so he is a
force to be reckoned with.....opening doors, pulling out chairs, etc....it's great! Every now and again, he slips up and forgets, but it's cool
because it's generally ingrained in him to be a gentleman.
Ms. FATAL
P.E.N. Circle Infiltrator
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BrownBomber
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| posted on 7.28.2008 at 06:03 PM |
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Taking notes:......You're suppose to open a door for a woman?......Okay,I blew that one!! (lol).
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GetThaMoneyNrun
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| posted on 7.28.2008 at 06:51 PM |
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| Quote: | Originally posted by caramel2u
once you've experienced a southern gentleman you will be spoiled...
so, he should not start anything he can't finish.plus this is something thats just ingrained in some men. |
Chivalry is one of my forte's and im from NY - as u said its a trait thats ingrained - if a man holds the door open for his mom more than likely hes
gonna hold it open for you -- now if youre standing in front of that car door 2 years into your relationship u have a whole nutha set of issues to
deal with
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jinx1965
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| posted on 7.28.2008 at 06:56 PM |
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| Quote: | Originally posted by caramel2u
once you've experienced a southern gentleman you will be spoiled... |
I agree, I agree. I just came back from NC (never been south or had the experience of a "southern gentleman"). One of my male cousins who picked
me up at the airport showed me what I'd been missing.
From the point of introduction, I never opened a door, never carried a bag when we went out together. He held the car door open for me getting in and
out, took any bags that I may be carrying and put them in the trunk. I actually didn't know how to act or respond - when I got home, mine didn't
get out the car to help and I damn-near cried. Kid you not.
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PassaFist
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| posted on 7.28.2008 at 11:19 PM |
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I wouldn't forget. It's just natural. I won't forget to start the car and turn on the A/C either.
(Side note: Open the door and let her get in (Down South in the summer) then get sidetracked on a conversation with the person your leaving and watch
how fast she opens that door to get out of that hot azz vehicle. After she chewed me a new azz, the silence on the way home was so unnerving...you
could have heard a rat piss on cotton TWO blocks away. That cost me dearly. Let's just say as Mary J sang, I had to "STAY DOWN" for a few
days...work my way back up. So to speak.)
“The man who follows the crowd will usually get no further than the crowd. The man who walks alone is likely to find himself in places no one has ever
been.” - Alan Ashley-Pitt
Μολὼν λαβέ
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PassaFist
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| posted on 7.28.2008 at 11:22 PM |
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| Quote: | Originally posted by jinx1965
| Quote: | Originally posted by caramel2u
once you've experienced a southern gentleman you will be spoiled... |
I agree, I agree. I just came back from NC (never been south or had the experience of a "southern gentleman"). One of my male cousins who picked
me up at the airport showed me what I'd been missing.
From the point of introduction, I never opened a door, never carried a bag when we went out together. He held the car door open for me getting in and
out, took any bags that I may be carrying and put them in the trunk. I actually didn't know how to act or respond - when I got home, mine didn't
get out the car to help and I damn-near cried. Kid you not. |
Come on down...we'll treat you right.
“The man who follows the crowd will usually get no further than the crowd. The man who walks alone is likely to find himself in places no one has ever
been.” - Alan Ashley-Pitt
Μολὼν λαβέ
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Jpierpont
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| posted on 7.28.2008 at 11:29 PM |
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| Quote: | Originally posted by PassaFist
| Quote: | Originally posted by jinx1965
| Quote: | Originally posted by caramel2u
once you've experienced a southern gentleman you will be spoiled... |
I agree, I agree. I just came back from NC (never been south or had the experience of a "southern gentleman"). One of my male cousins who picked
me up at the airport showed me what I'd been missing.
From the point of introduction, I never opened a door, never carried a bag when we went out together. He held the car door open for me getting in and
out, took any bags that I may be carrying and put them in the trunk. I actually didn't know how to act or respond - when I got home, mine didn't
get out the car to help and I damn-near cried. Kid you not. |
Come on down...we'll treat you right. |
Damn southern boys, giving our women bad ideas.
I'm a man of the past and I'm living in the present and walking to the future"
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